[XFRM]: Optimize MTU calculation

Replace the probing based MTU estimation, which usually takes 2-3 iterations
to find a fitting value and may underestimate the MTU, by an exact calculation.

Also fix underestimation of the XFRM trailer_len, which causes unnecessary
reallocations.

Signed-off-by: Patrick McHardy <kaber@trash.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
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