sfc: Implement auto-negotiation

Add infrastructure for auto-negotiation of speed, duplex and flow
control.

When using 10Xpress, auto-negotiate flow control.  While we're
at it, clean up the code to warn when partner is not 10GBASE-T
capable.

Signed-off-by: Ben Hutchings <bhutchings@solarflare.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
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