tcp: do not mess with listener sk_wmem_alloc

When removing sk_refcnt manipulation on synflood, I missed that
using skb_set_owner_w() was racy, if sk->sk_wmem_alloc had already
transitioned to 0.

We should hold sk_refcnt instead, but this is a big deal under attack.
(Doing so increase performance from 3.2 Mpps to 3.8 Mpps only)

In this patch, I chose to not attach a socket to syncookies skb.

Performance is now 5 Mpps instead of 3.2 Mpps.

Following patch will remove last known false sharing in
tcp_rcv_state_process()

Fixes: 3b24d854cb35 ("tcp/dccp: do not touch listener sk_refcnt under synflood")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
diff --git a/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c b/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c
index f4f2a0a..d2a5763 100644
--- a/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c
+++ b/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c
@@ -830,7 +830,7 @@
 			      struct flowi *fl,
 			      struct request_sock *req,
 			      struct tcp_fastopen_cookie *foc,
-				  bool attach_req)
+			      enum tcp_synack_type synack_type)
 {
 	const struct inet_request_sock *ireq = inet_rsk(req);
 	struct flowi4 fl4;
@@ -841,7 +841,7 @@
 	if (!dst && (dst = inet_csk_route_req(sk, &fl4, req)) == NULL)
 		return -1;
 
-	skb = tcp_make_synack(sk, dst, req, foc, attach_req);
+	skb = tcp_make_synack(sk, dst, req, foc, synack_type);
 
 	if (skb) {
 		__tcp_v4_send_check(skb, ireq->ir_loc_addr, ireq->ir_rmt_addr);