rds: Fix RDMA message reference counting

The RDS send_xmit code was trying to get fancy with message
counting and was dropping the final reference on the RDMA messages
too early.  This resulted in memory corruption and oopsen.

The fix here is to always add a ref as the parts of the message passes
through rds_send_xmit, and always drop a ref as the parts of the message
go through completion handling.

Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>
diff --git a/net/rds/ib_send.c b/net/rds/ib_send.c
index 657037d..82459e5 100644
--- a/net/rds/ib_send.c
+++ b/net/rds/ib_send.c
@@ -268,11 +268,12 @@
 			if (send->s_queued + HZ/2 < jiffies)
 				rds_ib_stats_inc(s_ib_tx_stalled);
 
-			if (&send->s_op == &rm->m_final_op) {
-				/* If anyone waited for this message to get flushed out, wake
-				 * them up now */
-				rds_message_unmapped(rm);
-
+			if (send->s_op) {
+				if (send->s_op == rm->m_final_op) {
+					/* If anyone waited for this message to get flushed out, wake
+					 * them up now */
+					rds_message_unmapped(rm);
+				}
 				rds_message_put(rm);
 				send->s_op = NULL;
 			}