tcp: attach SYNACK messages to request sockets instead of listener

If a listen backlog is very big (to avoid syncookies), then
the listener sk->sk_wmem_alloc is the main source of false
sharing, as we need to touch it twice per SYNACK re-transmit
and TX completion.

(One SYN packet takes listener lock once, but up to 6 SYNACK
are generated)

By attaching the skb to the request socket, we remove this
source of contention.

Tested:

 listen(fd, 10485760); // single listener (no SO_REUSEPORT)
 16 RX/TX queue NIC
 Sustain a SYNFLOOD attack of ~320,000 SYN per second,
 Sending ~1,400,000 SYNACK per second.
 Perf profiles now show listener spinlock being next bottleneck.

    20.29%  [kernel]  [k] queued_spin_lock_slowpath
    10.06%  [kernel]  [k] __inet_lookup_established
     5.12%  [kernel]  [k] reqsk_timer_handler
     3.22%  [kernel]  [k] get_next_timer_interrupt
     3.00%  [kernel]  [k] tcp_make_synack
     2.77%  [kernel]  [k] ipt_do_table
     2.70%  [kernel]  [k] run_timer_softirq
     2.50%  [kernel]  [k] ip_finish_output
     2.04%  [kernel]  [k] cascade

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
diff --git a/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c b/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c
index bfe9d39..ac2ea73 100644
--- a/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c
+++ b/net/ipv4/tcp_ipv4.c
@@ -822,7 +822,8 @@
 			      struct flowi *fl,
 			      struct request_sock *req,
 			      u16 queue_mapping,
-			      struct tcp_fastopen_cookie *foc)
+			      struct tcp_fastopen_cookie *foc,
+				  bool attach_req)
 {
 	const struct inet_request_sock *ireq = inet_rsk(req);
 	struct flowi4 fl4;
@@ -833,7 +834,7 @@
 	if (!dst && (dst = inet_csk_route_req(sk, &fl4, req)) == NULL)
 		return -1;
 
-	skb = tcp_make_synack(sk, dst, req, foc);
+	skb = tcp_make_synack(sk, dst, req, foc, attach_req);
 
 	if (skb) {
 		__tcp_v4_send_check(skb, ireq->ir_loc_addr, ireq->ir_rmt_addr);