diff --git a/fs/ocfs2/dlm/dlmrecovery.c b/fs/ocfs2/dlm/dlmrecovery.c
index 0c8eb10..325c9f5 100644
--- a/fs/ocfs2/dlm/dlmrecovery.c
+++ b/fs/ocfs2/dlm/dlmrecovery.c
@@ -256,6 +256,27 @@
 	return 0;
 }
 
+/* returns true when the recovery master has contacted us */
+static int dlm_reco_master_ready(struct dlm_ctxt *dlm)
+{
+	int ready;
+	spin_lock(&dlm->spinlock);
+	ready = (dlm->reco.new_master != O2NM_INVALID_NODE_NUM);
+	spin_unlock(&dlm->spinlock);
+	return ready;
+}
+
+/* returns true if node is no longer in the domain
+ * could be dead or just not joined */
+int dlm_is_node_dead(struct dlm_ctxt *dlm, u8 node)
+{
+	int dead;
+	spin_lock(&dlm->spinlock);
+	dead = test_bit(node, dlm->domain_map);
+	spin_unlock(&dlm->spinlock);
+	return dead;
+}
+
 /* callers of the top-level api calls (dlmlock/dlmunlock) should
  * block on the dlm->reco.event when recovery is in progress.
  * the dlm recovery thread will set this state when it begins
@@ -297,6 +318,7 @@
 static int dlm_do_recovery(struct dlm_ctxt *dlm)
 {
 	int status = 0;
+	int ret;
 
 	spin_lock(&dlm->spinlock);
 
@@ -343,10 +365,13 @@
 		goto master_here;
 
 	if (dlm->reco.new_master == O2NM_INVALID_NODE_NUM) {
-		/* choose a new master */
-		if (!dlm_pick_recovery_master(dlm)) {
+		/* choose a new master, returns 0 if this node
+		 * is the master, -EEXIST if it's another node.
+		 * this does not return until a new master is chosen
+		 * or recovery completes entirely. */
+		ret = dlm_pick_recovery_master(dlm);
+		if (!ret) {
 			/* already notified everyone.  go. */
-			dlm->reco.new_master = dlm->node_num;
 			goto master_here;
 		}
 		mlog(0, "another node will master this recovery session.\n");
@@ -371,8 +396,13 @@
 	if (status < 0) {
 		mlog(ML_ERROR, "error %d remastering locks for node %u, "
 		     "retrying.\n", status, dlm->reco.dead_node);
+		/* yield a bit to allow any final network messages
+		 * to get handled on remaining nodes */
+		msleep(100);
 	} else {
 		/* success!  see if any other nodes need recovery */
+		mlog(0, "DONE mastering recovery of %s:%u here(this=%u)!\n",
+		     dlm->name, dlm->reco.dead_node, dlm->node_num);
 		dlm_reset_recovery(dlm);
 	}
 	dlm_end_recovery(dlm);
@@ -477,7 +507,7 @@
 					BUG();
 					break;
 				case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_DEAD:
-					mlog(0, "node %u died after "
+					mlog(ML_NOTICE, "node %u died after "
 					     "requesting recovery info for "
 					     "node %u\n", ndata->node_num,
 					     dead_node);
@@ -485,6 +515,19 @@
 					// start all over
 					destroy = 1;
 					status = -EAGAIN;
+					/* instead of spinning like crazy here,
+					 * wait for the domain map to catch up
+					 * with the network state.  otherwise this
+					 * can be hit hundreds of times before
+					 * the node is really seen as dead. */
+					wait_event_timeout(dlm->dlm_reco_thread_wq,
+							   dlm_is_node_dead(dlm,
+								ndata->node_num),
+							   msecs_to_jiffies(1000));
+					mlog(0, "waited 1 sec for %u, "
+					     "dead? %s\n", ndata->node_num,
+					     dlm_is_node_dead(dlm, ndata->node_num) ?
+					     "yes" : "no");
 					goto leave;
 				case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_RECEIVING:
 				case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_REQUESTED:
@@ -678,11 +721,27 @@
 	dlm = item->dlm;
 	dead_node = item->u.ral.dead_node;
 	reco_master = item->u.ral.reco_master;
+	mres = (struct dlm_migratable_lockres *)data;
+
+	if (dead_node != dlm->reco.dead_node ||
+	    reco_master != dlm->reco.new_master) {
+		/* show extra debug info if the recovery state is messed */
+		mlog(ML_ERROR, "%s: bad reco state: reco(dead=%u, master=%u), "
+		     "request(dead=%u, master=%u)\n",
+		     dlm->name, dlm->reco.dead_node, dlm->reco.new_master,
+		     dead_node, reco_master);
+		mlog(ML_ERROR, "%s: name=%.*s master=%u locks=%u/%u flags=%u "
+		     "entry[0]={c=%"MLFu64",l=%u,f=%u,t=%d,ct=%d,hb=%d,n=%u}\n",
+		     dlm->name, mres->lockname_len, mres->lockname, mres->master,
+		     mres->num_locks, mres->total_locks, mres->flags,
+		     mres->ml[0].cookie, mres->ml[0].list, mres->ml[0].flags,
+		     mres->ml[0].type, mres->ml[0].convert_type,
+		     mres->ml[0].highest_blocked, mres->ml[0].node);
+		BUG();
+	}
 	BUG_ON(dead_node != dlm->reco.dead_node);
 	BUG_ON(reco_master != dlm->reco.new_master);
 
-	mres = (struct dlm_migratable_lockres *)data;
-
 	/* lock resources should have already been moved to the
  	 * dlm->reco.resources list.  now move items from that list
  	 * to a temp list if the dead owner matches.  note that the
@@ -757,15 +816,18 @@
 			continue;
 
 		switch (ndata->state) {
+			/* should have moved beyond INIT but not to FINALIZE yet */
 			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_INIT:
 			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_DEAD:
-			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_DONE:
 			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_FINALIZE_SENT:
 				mlog(ML_ERROR, "bad ndata state for node %u:"
 				     " state=%d\n", ndata->node_num,
 				     ndata->state);
 				BUG();
 				break;
+			/* these states are possible at this point, anywhere along
+			 * the line of recovery */
+			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_DONE:
 			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_RECEIVING:
 			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_REQUESTED:
 			case DLM_RECO_NODE_DATA_REQUESTING:
@@ -799,13 +861,31 @@
 {
 	struct dlm_lock_resource *res;
 	struct list_head *iter, *iter2;
+	struct dlm_lock *lock;
 
 	spin_lock(&dlm->spinlock);
 	list_for_each_safe(iter, iter2, &dlm->reco.resources) {
 		res = list_entry (iter, struct dlm_lock_resource, recovering);
+		/* always prune any $RECOVERY entries for dead nodes,
+		 * otherwise hangs can occur during later recovery */
 		if (dlm_is_recovery_lock(res->lockname.name,
-					 res->lockname.len))
+					 res->lockname.len)) {
+			spin_lock(&res->spinlock);
+			list_for_each_entry(lock, &res->granted, list) {
+				if (lock->ml.node == dead_node) {
+					mlog(0, "AHA! there was "
+					     "a $RECOVERY lock for dead "
+					     "node %u (%s)!\n", 
+					     dead_node, dlm->name);
+					list_del_init(&lock->list);
+					dlm_lock_put(lock);
+					break;
+				}
+			}
+			spin_unlock(&res->spinlock);
 			continue;
+		}
+
 		if (res->owner == dead_node) {
 			mlog(0, "found lockres owned by dead node while "
 				  "doing recovery for node %u. sending it.\n",
@@ -1179,7 +1259,7 @@
 again:
 		ret = dlm_lockres_master_requery(dlm, res, &real_master);
 		if (ret < 0) {
-			mlog(0, "dlm_lockres_master_requery failure: %d\n",
+			mlog(0, "dlm_lockres_master_requery ret=%d\n",
 				  ret);
 			goto again;
 		}
@@ -1757,6 +1837,7 @@
 	struct dlm_lock_resource *res;
 	int i;
 	struct list_head *bucket;
+	struct dlm_lock *lock;
 
 
 	/* purge any stale mles */
@@ -1780,10 +1861,25 @@
 		bucket = &(dlm->resources[i]);
 		list_for_each(iter, bucket) {
 			res = list_entry (iter, struct dlm_lock_resource, list);
+ 			/* always prune any $RECOVERY entries for dead nodes,
+ 			 * otherwise hangs can occur during later recovery */
 			if (dlm_is_recovery_lock(res->lockname.name,
-						 res->lockname.len))
+						 res->lockname.len)) {
+				spin_lock(&res->spinlock);
+				list_for_each_entry(lock, &res->granted, list) {
+					if (lock->ml.node == dead_node) {
+						mlog(0, "AHA! there was "
+						     "a $RECOVERY lock for dead "
+						     "node %u (%s)!\n",
+						     dead_node, dlm->name);
+						list_del_init(&lock->list);
+						dlm_lock_put(lock);
+						break;
+					}
+				}
+				spin_unlock(&res->spinlock);
 				continue;
-			
+			}			
 			spin_lock(&res->spinlock);
 			/* zero the lvb if necessary */
 			dlm_revalidate_lvb(dlm, res, dead_node);
@@ -1869,12 +1965,9 @@
 		return;
 
 	spin_lock(&dlm->spinlock);
-
 	set_bit(idx, dlm->live_nodes_map);
-
-	/* notify any mles attached to the heartbeat events */
-	dlm_hb_event_notify_attached(dlm, idx, 1);
-
+	/* do NOT notify mle attached to the heartbeat events.
+	 * new nodes are not interesting in mastery until joined. */
 	spin_unlock(&dlm->spinlock);
 
 	dlm_put(dlm);
@@ -1897,7 +1990,18 @@
 	mlog(0, "unlockast for recovery lock fired!\n");
 }
 
-
+/*
+ * dlm_pick_recovery_master will continually attempt to use
+ * dlmlock() on the special "$RECOVERY" lockres with the
+ * LKM_NOQUEUE flag to get an EX.  every thread that enters
+ * this function on each node racing to become the recovery
+ * master will not stop attempting this until either:
+ * a) this node gets the EX (and becomes the recovery master),
+ * or b) dlm->reco.new_master gets set to some nodenum 
+ * != O2NM_INVALID_NODE_NUM (another node will do the reco).
+ * so each time a recovery master is needed, the entire cluster
+ * will sync at this point.  if the new master dies, that will
+ * be detected in dlm_do_recovery */
 static int dlm_pick_recovery_master(struct dlm_ctxt *dlm)
 {
 	enum dlm_status ret;
@@ -1906,23 +2010,45 @@
 
 	mlog(0, "starting recovery of %s at %lu, dead=%u, this=%u\n",
 	     dlm->name, jiffies, dlm->reco.dead_node, dlm->node_num);
-retry:
+again:	
 	memset(&lksb, 0, sizeof(lksb));
 
 	ret = dlmlock(dlm, LKM_EXMODE, &lksb, LKM_NOQUEUE|LKM_RECOVERY,
 		      DLM_RECOVERY_LOCK_NAME, dlm_reco_ast, dlm, dlm_reco_bast);
 
+	mlog(0, "%s: dlmlock($RECOVERY) returned %d, lksb=%d\n",
+	     dlm->name, ret, lksb.status);
+
 	if (ret == DLM_NORMAL) {
 		mlog(0, "dlm=%s dlmlock says I got it (this=%u)\n",
 		     dlm->name, dlm->node_num);
-		/* I am master, send message to all nodes saying
-		 * that I am beginning a recovery session */
-		status = dlm_send_begin_reco_message(dlm,
-					      dlm->reco.dead_node);
+		
+		/* got the EX lock.  check to see if another node 
+		 * just became the reco master */
+		if (dlm_reco_master_ready(dlm)) {
+			mlog(0, "%s: got reco EX lock, but %u will "
+			     "do the recovery\n", dlm->name,
+			     dlm->reco.new_master);
+			status = -EEXIST;
+		} else {
+			status = dlm_send_begin_reco_message(dlm,
+				      dlm->reco.dead_node);
+			/* this always succeeds */
+			BUG_ON(status);
+
+			/* set the new_master to this node */
+			spin_lock(&dlm->spinlock);
+			dlm->reco.new_master = dlm->node_num;
+			spin_unlock(&dlm->spinlock);
+		}
 
 		/* recovery lock is a special case.  ast will not get fired,
 		 * so just go ahead and unlock it. */
 		ret = dlmunlock(dlm, &lksb, 0, dlm_reco_unlock_ast, dlm);
+		if (ret == DLM_DENIED) {
+			mlog(0, "got DLM_DENIED, trying LKM_CANCEL\n");
+			ret = dlmunlock(dlm, &lksb, LKM_CANCEL, dlm_reco_unlock_ast, dlm);
+		}
 		if (ret != DLM_NORMAL) {
 			/* this would really suck. this could only happen
 			 * if there was a network error during the unlock
@@ -1930,20 +2056,42 @@
 			 * is actually "done" and the lock structure is
 			 * even freed.  we can continue, but only
 			 * because this specific lock name is special. */
-			mlog(0, "dlmunlock returned %d\n", ret);
-		}
-
-		if (status < 0) {
-			mlog(0, "failed to send recovery message. "
-				   "must retry with new node map.\n");
-			goto retry;
+			mlog(ML_ERROR, "dlmunlock returned %d\n", ret);
 		}
 	} else if (ret == DLM_NOTQUEUED) {
 		mlog(0, "dlm=%s dlmlock says another node got it (this=%u)\n",
 		     dlm->name, dlm->node_num);
 		/* another node is master. wait on
-		 * reco.new_master != O2NM_INVALID_NODE_NUM */
+		 * reco.new_master != O2NM_INVALID_NODE_NUM 
+		 * for at most one second */
+		wait_event_timeout(dlm->dlm_reco_thread_wq,
+					 dlm_reco_master_ready(dlm),
+					 msecs_to_jiffies(1000));
+		if (!dlm_reco_master_ready(dlm)) {
+			mlog(0, "%s: reco master taking awhile\n",
+			     dlm->name);
+			goto again;
+		}
+		/* another node has informed this one that it is reco master */
+		mlog(0, "%s: reco master %u is ready to recover %u\n",
+		     dlm->name, dlm->reco.new_master, dlm->reco.dead_node);
 		status = -EEXIST;
+	} else {
+		struct dlm_lock_resource *res;
+
+		/* dlmlock returned something other than NOTQUEUED or NORMAL */
+		mlog(ML_ERROR, "%s: got %s from dlmlock($RECOVERY), "
+		     "lksb.status=%s\n", dlm->name, dlm_errname(ret),
+		     dlm_errname(lksb.status));
+		res = dlm_lookup_lockres(dlm, DLM_RECOVERY_LOCK_NAME,
+					 DLM_RECOVERY_LOCK_NAME_LEN);
+		if (res) {
+			dlm_print_one_lock_resource(res);
+			dlm_lockres_put(res);
+		} else {
+			mlog(ML_ERROR, "recovery lock not found\n");
+		}
+		BUG();
 	}
 
 	return status;
@@ -1982,7 +2130,7 @@
 			mlog(0, "not sending begin reco to self\n");
 			continue;
 		}
-
+retry:
 		ret = -EINVAL;
 		mlog(0, "attempting to send begin reco msg to %d\n",
 			  nodenum);
@@ -1991,8 +2139,17 @@
 		/* negative status is handled ok by caller here */
 		if (ret >= 0)
 			ret = status;
+		if (dlm_is_host_down(ret)) {
+			/* node is down.  not involved in recovery
+			 * so just keep going */
+			mlog(0, "%s: node %u was down when sending "
+			     "begin reco msg (%d)\n", dlm->name, nodenum, ret);
+			ret = 0;
+		}
 		if (ret < 0) {
 			struct dlm_lock_resource *res;
+			/* this is now a serious problem, possibly ENOMEM 
+			 * in the network stack.  must retry */
 			mlog_errno(ret);
 			mlog(ML_ERROR, "begin reco of dlm %s to node %u "
 			    " returned %d\n", dlm->name, nodenum, ret);
@@ -2004,7 +2161,10 @@
 			} else {
 				mlog(ML_ERROR, "recovery lock not found\n");
 			}
-			break;
+			/* sleep for a bit in hopes that we can avoid 
+			 * another ENOMEM */
+			msleep(100);
+			goto retry;
 		}
 	}
 
@@ -2027,19 +2187,34 @@
 
 	spin_lock(&dlm->spinlock);
 	if (dlm->reco.new_master != O2NM_INVALID_NODE_NUM) {
-		mlog(0, "new_master already set to %u!\n",
-			  dlm->reco.new_master);
+		if (test_bit(dlm->reco.new_master, dlm->recovery_map)) {
+			mlog(0, "%s: new_master %u died, changing "
+			     "to %u\n", dlm->name, dlm->reco.new_master,
+			     br->node_idx);
+		} else {
+			mlog(0, "%s: new_master %u NOT DEAD, changing "
+			     "to %u\n", dlm->name, dlm->reco.new_master,
+			     br->node_idx);
+			/* may not have seen the new master as dead yet */
+		}
 	}
 	if (dlm->reco.dead_node != O2NM_INVALID_NODE_NUM) {
-		mlog(0, "dead_node already set to %u!\n",
-			  dlm->reco.dead_node);
+		mlog(ML_NOTICE, "%s: dead_node previously set to %u, "
+		     "node %u changing it to %u\n", dlm->name, 
+		     dlm->reco.dead_node, br->node_idx, br->dead_node);
 	}
 	dlm->reco.new_master = br->node_idx;
 	dlm->reco.dead_node = br->dead_node;
 	if (!test_bit(br->dead_node, dlm->recovery_map)) {
-		mlog(ML_ERROR, "recovery master %u sees %u as dead, but this "
+		mlog(0, "recovery master %u sees %u as dead, but this "
 		     "node has not yet.  marking %u as dead\n",
 		     br->node_idx, br->dead_node, br->dead_node);
+		if (!test_bit(br->dead_node, dlm->domain_map) ||
+		    !test_bit(br->dead_node, dlm->live_nodes_map))
+			mlog(0, "%u not in domain/live_nodes map "
+			     "so setting it in reco map manually\n",
+			     br->dead_node);
+		set_bit(br->dead_node, dlm->recovery_map);
 		__dlm_hb_node_down(dlm, br->dead_node);
 	}
 	spin_unlock(&dlm->spinlock);