RDS: Rewrite connection cleanup, fixing oops on rmmod

This fixes a bug where a connection was unexpectedly
not on *any* list while being destroyed. It also
cleans up some code duplication and regularizes some
function names.

* Grab appropriate lock in conn_free() and explain in comment
* Ensure via locking that a conn is never not on either
  a dev's list or the nodev list
* Add rds_xx_remove_conn() to match rds_xx_add_conn()
* Make rds_xx_add_conn() return void
* Rename remove_{,nodev_}conns() to
  destroy_{,nodev_}conns() and unify their implementation
  in a helper function
* Document lock ordering as nodev conn_lock before
  dev_conn_lock

Reported-by: Yosef Etigin <yosefe@voltaire.com>
Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
diff --git a/net/rds/ib.c b/net/rds/ib.c
index 06a7b79..4933b38 100644
--- a/net/rds/ib.c
+++ b/net/rds/ib.c
@@ -51,6 +51,7 @@
 
 struct list_head rds_ib_devices;
 
+/* NOTE: if also grabbing ibdev lock, grab this first */
 DEFINE_SPINLOCK(ib_nodev_conns_lock);
 LIST_HEAD(ib_nodev_conns);
 
@@ -137,7 +138,7 @@
 		kfree(i_ipaddr);
 	}
 
-	rds_ib_remove_conns(rds_ibdev);
+	rds_ib_destroy_conns(rds_ibdev);
 
 	if (rds_ibdev->mr_pool)
 		rds_ib_destroy_mr_pool(rds_ibdev->mr_pool);
@@ -249,7 +250,7 @@
 void rds_ib_exit(void)
 {
 	rds_info_deregister_func(RDS_INFO_IB_CONNECTIONS, rds_ib_ic_info);
-	rds_ib_remove_nodev_conns();
+	rds_ib_destroy_nodev_conns();
 	ib_unregister_client(&rds_ib_client);
 	rds_ib_sysctl_exit();
 	rds_ib_recv_exit();