net: sk_add_backlog() take rmem_alloc into account

Current socket backlog limit is not enough to really stop DDOS attacks,
because user thread spend many time to process a full backlog each
round, and user might crazy spin on socket lock.

We should add backlog size and receive_queue size (aka rmem_alloc) to
pace writers, and let user run without being slow down too much.

Introduce a sk_rcvqueues_full() helper, to avoid taking socket lock in
stress situations.

Under huge stress from a multiqueue/RPS enabled NIC, a single flow udp
receiver can now process ~200.000 pps (instead of ~100 pps before the
patch) on a 8 core machine.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <eric.dumazet@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
diff --git a/net/ipv6/udp.c b/net/ipv6/udp.c
index 2850e35..3ead20a 100644
--- a/net/ipv6/udp.c
+++ b/net/ipv6/udp.c
@@ -584,6 +584,10 @@
 
 		sk = stack[i];
 		if (skb1) {
+			if (sk_rcvqueues_full(sk, skb)) {
+				kfree_skb(skb1);
+				goto drop;
+			}
 			bh_lock_sock(sk);
 			if (!sock_owned_by_user(sk))
 				udpv6_queue_rcv_skb(sk, skb1);
@@ -759,6 +763,10 @@
 
 	/* deliver */
 
+	if (sk_rcvqueues_full(sk, skb)) {
+		sock_put(sk);
+		goto discard;
+	}
 	bh_lock_sock(sk);
 	if (!sock_owned_by_user(sk))
 		udpv6_queue_rcv_skb(sk, skb);