RDMA/cxgb3: Streaming -> RDMA mode transition fixes

Due to a HW issue, our current scheme to transition the connection from
streaming to rdma mode is broken on the passive side.  The firmware
and driver now support a new transition scheme for the passive side:

 - driver posts rdma_init_wr (now including the initial receive seqno)
 - driver posts last streaming message via TX_DATA message (MPA start
   response)
 - uP atomically sends the last streaming message and transitions the
   tcb to rdma mode.
 - driver waits for wr_ack indicating the last streaming message was ACKed.

NOTE: This change also bumps the required firmware version to 4.3.

Signed-off-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>
diff --git a/drivers/infiniband/hw/cxgb3/cxio_hal.c b/drivers/infiniband/hw/cxgb3/cxio_hal.c
index 76049af..215bbe5 100644
--- a/drivers/infiniband/hw/cxgb3/cxio_hal.c
+++ b/drivers/infiniband/hw/cxgb3/cxio_hal.c
@@ -833,7 +833,7 @@
 	wqe->ird = cpu_to_be32(attr->ird);
 	wqe->qp_dma_addr = cpu_to_be64(attr->qp_dma_addr);
 	wqe->qp_dma_size = cpu_to_be32(attr->qp_dma_size);
-	wqe->rsvd = 0;
+	wqe->irs = cpu_to_be32(attr->irs);
 	skb->priority = 0;	/* 0=>ToeQ; 1=>CtrlQ */
 	return (cxgb3_ofld_send(rdev_p->t3cdev_p, skb));
 }