Use cares package in node
diff --git a/build.yaml b/build.yaml
index 6513bd3..92c30f2 100644
--- a/build.yaml
+++ b/build.yaml
@@ -3409,7 +3409,7 @@
     timeout_multiplier: 1.5
 defaults:
   ares:
-    CFLAGS: -Wno-sign-conversion -Wno-invalid-source-encoding -Wno-pointer-sign
+    CFLAGS: -Wno-sign-conversion -Wno-invalid-source-encoding
     CPPFLAGS: -Ithird_party/c-ares -Isrc/c-ares $(if $(subst Linux,,$(SYSTEM)),,-Isrc/c-ares/config_linux)
       $(if $(subst Darwin,,$(SYSTEM)),,-Isrc/c-ares/config_darwin) -fvisibility=hidden
       -D_GNU_SOURCE -DWIN32_LEAN_AND_MEAN -D_HAS_EXCEPTIONS=0 -DNOMINMAX -DHAVE_CONFIG_H
@@ -3428,7 +3428,6 @@
 - deps:
   - grpc
   - gpr
-  - ares
   - boringssl
   - z
   headers: