meson: use gnu_symbol_visibility argument

This uses a meson builtin to handle -fvisibility=hidden. This is nice
because we don't need to track which languages are used, if C++ is
suddenly added meson just does the right thing.

Acked-by: Matt Turner <mattst88@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Engestrom <eric@engestrom.ch>
Part-of: <https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/mesa/mesa/-/merge_requests/4740>
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