add support for RTLD_NOLOAD to dlopen

based on patch by Pierre Carrier <pierre@gcarrier.fr> that just added
the flag constant, but with minimal additional code so that it
actually works as documented. this is a nonstandard option but some
major software (reportedly, Firefox) uses it and it was easy to add
anyway.
diff --git a/include/dlfcn.h b/include/dlfcn.h
index 46c4e18..5b57e8a 100644
--- a/include/dlfcn.h
+++ b/include/dlfcn.h
@@ -9,6 +9,7 @@
 
 #define RTLD_LAZY   1
 #define RTLD_NOW    2
+#define RTLD_NOLOAD 4
 #define RTLD_GLOBAL 256
 #define RTLD_LOCAL  0