bpo-38019: correctly handle pause/resume reading of closed asyncio unix pipe (GH-16472)

(cherry picked from commit 58498bc7178608b1ab031994ca09c43889ce3e76)

Co-authored-by: Andrew Svetlov <andrew.svetlov@gmail.com>
diff --git a/Lib/asyncio/unix_events.py b/Lib/asyncio/unix_events.py
index cbbb106..d8f6530 100644
--- a/Lib/asyncio/unix_events.py
+++ b/Lib/asyncio/unix_events.py
@@ -445,6 +445,7 @@
         self._fileno = pipe.fileno()
         self._protocol = protocol
         self._closing = False
+        self._paused = False
 
         mode = os.fstat(self._fileno).st_mode
         if not (stat.S_ISFIFO(mode) or
@@ -506,10 +507,20 @@
                 self._loop.call_soon(self._call_connection_lost, None)
 
     def pause_reading(self):
+        if self._closing or self._paused:
+            return
+        self._paused = True
         self._loop._remove_reader(self._fileno)
+        if self._loop.get_debug():
+            logger.debug("%r pauses reading", self)
 
     def resume_reading(self):
+        if self._closing or not self._paused:
+            return
+        self._paused = False
         self._loop._add_reader(self._fileno, self._read_ready)
+        if self._loop.get_debug():
+            logger.debug("%r resumes reading", self)
 
     def set_protocol(self, protocol):
         self._protocol = protocol