bpo-33042: Fix pre-initialization sys module configuration (GH-6157)


- new test case for pre-initialization of sys.warnoptions and sys._xoptions
- restored ability to call these APIs prior to Py_Initialize
- updated the docs for the affected APIs to make it clear they can be
  called before Py_Initialize
- also enhanced the existing embedding test cases
  to check for expected settings in the sys module
(cherry picked from commit bc77eff8b96be4f035e665ab35c1d06e22f46491)

Co-authored-by: Nick Coghlan <ncoghlan@gmail.com>
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