bpo-39899: os.path.expanduser(): don't guess other Windows users' home directories if the basename of the current user's home directory doesn't match their username. (GH-18841)

This makes `ntpath.expanduser()` match `pathlib.Path.expanduser()` in this regard, and is more in line with `posixpath.expanduser()`'s cautious approach.

Also remove the near-duplicate implementation of `expanduser()` in pathlib, and by doing so fix a bug where KeyError could be raised when expanding another user's home directory.
diff --git a/Lib/test/test_pathlib.py b/Lib/test/test_pathlib.py
index 2643119..0c89b6e 100644
--- a/Lib/test/test_pathlib.py
+++ b/Lib/test/test_pathlib.py
@@ -2609,7 +2609,7 @@ def check():
                 env.pop('USERNAME', None)
                 self.assertEqual(p1.expanduser(),
                                  P('C:/Users/alice/My Documents'))
-                self.assertRaises(KeyError, p2.expanduser)
+                self.assertRaises(RuntimeError, p2.expanduser)
                 env['USERNAME'] = 'alice'
                 self.assertEqual(p2.expanduser(),
                                  P('C:/Users/alice/My Documents'))