bpo-37390: Add audit event table to documentations (GH-14406)

Also updates some (unreleased) event names to be consistent with the others.
diff --git a/Doc/library/smtplib.rst b/Doc/library/smtplib.rst
index 8771f10..6176c35 100644
--- a/Doc/library/smtplib.rst
+++ b/Doc/library/smtplib.rst
@@ -55,9 +55,11 @@
     (250, b'Ok')
     >>>
 
-   All commands will raise an :ref:`auditing event <auditing>`
-   ``smtplib.SMTP.send`` with arguments ``self`` and ``data``,
-   where ``data`` is the bytes about to be sent to the remote host.
+   .. audit-event:: smtplib.send self,data smtplib.SMTP
+
+      All commands will raise an :ref:`auditing event <auditing>`
+      ``smtplib.SMTP.send`` with arguments ``self`` and ``data``,
+      where ``data`` is the bytes about to be sent to the remote host.
 
    .. versionchanged:: 3.3
       Support for the :keyword:`with` statement was added.
@@ -246,7 +248,7 @@
    2-tuple of the response code and message sent by the server in its
    connection response.
 
-   .. audit-event:: smtplib.SMTP.connect "self host port"
+   .. audit-event:: smtplib.connect self,host,port smtplib.SMTP.connect
 
 
 .. method:: SMTP.helo(name='')