[3.10] bpo-45007: Update to OpenSSL 1.1.1l in Windows build and CI (GH-28009) (GH-28039)

(cherry picked from commit d3bdbbf9a4352a24fc2bfc7a63a024b244b61aba)

Co-authored-by: Steve Dower <steve.dower@python.org>
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