[3.10] bpo-44242: [Enum] remove missing bits test from Flag creation (GH-26586) (GH-26635)

Move the check for missing named flags in flag aliases from Flag creation
to a new *verify* decorator..

(cherry picked from commit eea8148b7dff5ffc7b84433859ac819b1d92a74d)

Co-authored-by: Ethan Furman <ethan@stoneleaf.us>
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