bpo-43103: Add configure --without-static-libpython (GH-24418)

Add a new configure --without-static-libpython option to not build
the libpythonMAJOR.MINOR.a static library and not install the
python.o object file.

Fix smelly.py and stable_abi.py tools when libpython3.10.a is
missing.
diff --git a/Tools/scripts/stable_abi.py b/Tools/scripts/stable_abi.py
index 47547a9..117dfeb 100755
--- a/Tools/scripts/stable_abi.py
+++ b/Tools/scripts/stable_abi.py
@@ -2,8 +2,9 @@
 
 import argparse
 import glob
-import re
+import os.path
 import pathlib
+import re
 import subprocess
 import sys
 import sysconfig
@@ -213,7 +214,8 @@ def check_symbols(parser_args):
         LIBRARY = sysconfig.get_config_var("LIBRARY")
         if not LIBRARY:
             raise Exception("failed to get LIBRARY variable from sysconfig")
-        check_library(parser_args.stable_abi_file, LIBRARY, abi_funcs)
+        if os.path.exists(LIBRARY):
+            check_library(parser_args.stable_abi_file, LIBRARY, abi_funcs)
 
         # dynamic library
         LDLIBRARY = sysconfig.get_config_var("LDLIBRARY")