add_module: allow include as SYSTEM (#1416)

pybind11 headers passed via the `pybind11_add_module` CMake
function can now be included as `SYSTEM` includes (`-isystem`).

This allows to set stricter (or experimental) warnings in
calling projects that might throw otherwise in headers
a user of pybind11 can not influence.
diff --git a/tools/pybind11Tools.cmake b/tools/pybind11Tools.cmake
index 52a70c2..6515f27 100644
--- a/tools/pybind11Tools.cmake
+++ b/tools/pybind11Tools.cmake
@@ -110,10 +110,10 @@
 
 # Build a Python extension module:
 # pybind11_add_module(<name> [MODULE | SHARED] [EXCLUDE_FROM_ALL]
-#                     [NO_EXTRAS] [THIN_LTO] source1 [source2 ...])
+#                     [NO_EXTRAS] [SYSTEM] [THIN_LTO] source1 [source2 ...])
 #
 function(pybind11_add_module target_name)
-  set(options MODULE SHARED EXCLUDE_FROM_ALL NO_EXTRAS THIN_LTO)
+  set(options MODULE SHARED EXCLUDE_FROM_ALL NO_EXTRAS SYSTEM THIN_LTO)
   cmake_parse_arguments(ARG "${options}" "" "" ${ARGN})
 
   if(ARG_MODULE AND ARG_SHARED)
@@ -130,7 +130,11 @@
 
   add_library(${target_name} ${lib_type} ${exclude_from_all} ${ARG_UNPARSED_ARGUMENTS})
 
-  target_include_directories(${target_name}
+  if(ARG_SYSTEM)
+    set(inc_isystem SYSTEM)
+  endif()
+
+  target_include_directories(${target_name} ${inc_isystem}
     PRIVATE ${PYBIND11_INCLUDE_DIR}  # from project CMakeLists.txt
     PRIVATE ${pybind11_INCLUDE_DIR}  # from pybind11Config
     PRIVATE ${PYTHON_INCLUDE_DIRS})