[infra] Revert broken recipe rolls, add test for missing patch_ref

A recent upstream CL caused our trybots to stop providing the
--patch_ref flag to bot_update:
https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/chromium/tools/depot_tools/+/1174988

Unfortunately, we did not have a "normal" trybot as part of our tests,
so we did not catch it during the roll:
https://skia-review.googlesource.com/c/skia/+/151984

Bug: skia:
Change-Id: I2a02a2e1923715a685448ce5f4d58a93de51c3ef
Reviewed-on: https://skia-review.googlesource.com/152741
Commit-Queue: Eric Boren <borenet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Edward Lemur <ehmaldonado@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Boren <borenet@google.com>
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