Add resource provider flag to avoid client-side buffers

On some platforms, a newly-created buffer was liable to be CPU backed.
This would break code that expected a VBO (aka instanced rendering).
This change adds an optional flag to GrResourceProvider that requires
a buffer to be created in GPU memory.

It also moves the CPU backing logic into Gr land in order to properly
cache real VBOs on platforms that prefer client-side buffers.

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