Reland "Detach op memory pool from recording context"

This reverts commit ed58654e39df63bd8d58944bea9f65a8ca206986.

Reason for revert: Fix field order in SkDeferredDisplayList to deconstruct
dependent types in the proper order.

Original change's description:
> Revert "Detach op memory pool from recording context"
>
> This reverts commit 6b955167286de1cc0cf215e460389614221903fe.
>
> Reason for revert: breaking some Win10 bots
>
> Original change's description:
> > Detach op memory pool from recording context
> >
> > This changes GrOpMemoryPool to no longer extend SkRefCnt, and all usages
> > either are std::unique_ptr for owners, or GrOpMemoryPool* when ownership
> > is held somewhere else. The culmination of this is that DDLs explicitly
> > detach the memory pool from the recording context instead of the GrOpsTask
> > maintaining a strong ref that preserved the memory somewhat sneakily.
> >
> > Change-Id: I33e2caebea70cebe8fd7681207c631feeaf2c703
> > Reviewed-on: https://skia-review.googlesource.com/c/skia/+/259424
> > Commit-Queue: Michael Ludwig <michaelludwig@google.com>
> > Reviewed-by: Robert Phillips <robertphillips@google.com>
> > Reviewed-by: Brian Salomon <bsalomon@google.com>
>
> TBR=bsalomon@google.com,robertphillips@google.com,michaelludwig@google.com
>
> Change-Id: I942ae1e07fdc63d9311f6ee482bd71beca090502
> No-Presubmit: true
> No-Tree-Checks: true
> No-Try: true
> Reviewed-on: https://skia-review.googlesource.com/c/skia/+/259696
> Reviewed-by: Derek Sollenberger <djsollen@google.com>
> Commit-Queue: Derek Sollenberger <djsollen@google.com>

Change-Id: Ia82fa6e42fc8d75b8aa57e5172894e8dfc7e83d1
Reviewed-on: https://skia-review.googlesource.com/c/skia/+/259816
Reviewed-by: Brian Salomon <bsalomon@google.com>
Commit-Queue: Michael Ludwig <michaelludwig@google.com>
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