[InstCombine] Add replaceOperand() helper

Adds a replaceOperand() helper, which is like Instruction.setOperand()
but adds the old operand to the worklist. This reduces the amount of
missing or incorrect worklist management.

This only applies the helper to a relatively small subset of
setOperand() calls in InstCombine, namely those of the pattern
`I.setOperand(); return &I;`, where it is most obviously applicable.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D73803
diff --git a/llvm/lib/Transforms/InstCombine/InstCombineVectorOps.cpp b/llvm/lib/Transforms/InstCombine/InstCombineVectorOps.cpp
index 584c8aa2..516da23 100644
--- a/llvm/lib/Transforms/InstCombine/InstCombineVectorOps.cpp
+++ b/llvm/lib/Transforms/InstCombine/InstCombineVectorOps.cpp
@@ -399,11 +399,8 @@
         return replaceInstUsesWith(EI, IE->getOperand(1));
       // If the inserted and extracted elements are constants, they must not
       // be the same value, extract from the pre-inserted value instead.
-      if (isa<Constant>(IE->getOperand(2)) && IndexC) {
-        Worklist.pushValue(SrcVec);
-        EI.setOperand(0, IE->getOperand(0));
-        return &EI;
-      }
+      if (isa<Constant>(IE->getOperand(2)) && IndexC)
+        return replaceOperand(EI, 0, IE->getOperand(0));
     } else if (auto *SVI = dyn_cast<ShuffleVectorInst>(I)) {
       // If this is extracting an element from a shufflevector, figure out where
       // it came from and extract from the appropriate input element instead.